we’re screwed because we ghost to end things, we’re hyper-focused on sex, we actively try to show we’re not too interested, our responses are too strategic, we have too high of expectations of people and become entitled, we have a surplus of options and access, we’ve become too comfortable being alone that it’s become difficult to invite others into our lives, we’ve normalized vague situationships and unclear intentions, and we’re not accountable for the pain that we inflict on others. This is fine for some people, but for others that acknowledge that human beings need authentic connection and that it’s natural to want intimacy, this is going to lead to people aging into loneliness and settling into misery if we don’t do inner work and heal our perception of love collectively.

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