To photograph people is to violate them, by seeing them as they never see themselves, by having knowledge of them that they can never have; it turns people into objects that can be symbolically possessed. Just as a camera is a sublimation of the gun, to photograph someone is a subliminal murder—a soft murder, appropriate to a sad, frightened time.

Speaking of love, in analytic discourse, basically one does nothing else.

virilio and dromology:

exhiliration, purity, speed.

passivity vs activity. a fully closed hand...