- Do I learn new things from this person?
- Do they show me things about myself?
- Do they show up for me like I do for them?
- Do I feel held?
- Do I feel safe?
- Do I feel seen?
- Can I be my authentic self around them?
- Do they communicate efficiently?
- Does my inner child feel safe around them?
- Have they done their inner work? Or are they willing to do so?
- What is their experience of love previously? (this will affect how they love me)
- Does this connection nourish my soul or feed the ego?
Questions I wish I’d have asked myself …