“What does he see in her that he didn't see in me?
Let's assume you are objectively ‘better’ than your ex's new girlfriend in some way.
That doesn't necessarily mean that you're the better match for him.
According to Edwards, ‘The fact our ex is dating someone different than us says a lot more about our ex than it does about us.’
She's different than you are, and that's kind of the point.
You broke up for a reason. As tempting as it can be to try to turn relationships into mathematical equations, they simply aren't calculations.”