• Do I learn new things from this person?
  • Do they show me things about myself?
  • Do they show up for me like I do for them?
  • Do I feel held?
  • Do I feel safe?
  • Do I feel seen?
  • Can I be my authentic self around them?
  • Do they communicate efficiently?
  • Does my inner child feel safe around them?
  • Have they done their inner work? Or are they willing to do so?
  • What is their experience of love previously? (this will affect how they love me)
  • Does this connection nourish my soul or feed the ego?

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