You stand with the least likely to succeed until success is succeeded by something more valuable: kinship. You stand with the belligerent, the surly, and the badly behaved until bad behavior is recognized for the language it is: the vocabulary of the deeply wounded and of those whose burdens are more than they can bear.

Boyle, Gregory (2010-02-14). Tattoos on the Heart: The Power of Boundless Compassion (p. 179). Free Press. Kindle Edition.

Csaba Osvath