Free your mind... And your ass will follow.
"There is the illusion that Hot Girl Shit is about absolutism when actually it is about the freedom and courage to magnify what makes you feel empowered. That is why hot girls are not the same as Hot Girls and Hot Girls don’t have to be girls at all. Being Hot — capital H — is a state of mind and when fully embraced, it’s potent enough to bring about real life changes. Buddhist Baddie says ~life is constant change."
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hot take but the idea you should “love yourself unconditionally” is self-infantilizing. people love their children unconditionally; their love for their peers—however deep—is rooted in a basic sort of respect. Part of getting better at loving yourself must involve becoming someone who you can respect.
Use your brains, your common sense, and do not become an object. The way you look is important, but who you are and how you project it is eventually who you will become and how you will appear.