This is an age of great individualism and narcissism. We live in the marketplace of identities; vanity is what drives economies now. (...) The way we flirt now, by sharing images and impressions of ourselves online, is yet another way of expressing your personal identity. In the sexy panopticon of social media, (...) Our goal is to appear desirable to others rather than feel desire ourselves. Who can be expected to connect with someone else, to experience real passion under these conditions?