seeking recognition is only living by other's expectations, and therefor it makes you unfree
seeking recognition = self-centered --> you appear to be looking at others, but you're actually only looking at yourself, concern for what others think of you, is actually an over attachment to self
freedom = being disliked by others --> it is proof that you are living in accordance to your own principles, following through with your own way of living without imposing on other's free will (hurting people)
- unconcerned with others judgements
- no fear of being disliked
- unconcerned with recognition
courage to be happy = the courage to be disliked