The self is not something you can set out looking for; it reveals itself gradually through the choices you make.
you have three choices:
1) be a person who makes plans
2) be lonely
3) be extremely attractive and highly approachable
MORELAND: It kind of reminds me of what they say about learning a language. The best thing to do is just to get out and use the language. And so much of how you seem to carry yourself as a photographer is just by leaving your house and being among people and experiencing the world.