When they show you something on their phone but you look at their hands instead

"I think anybody who falls in love is a freak. It’s is a crazy thing to do. It’s kind of like a form of socially acceptable insanity."

i killed a plant once because i gave
it too much water. lord, i worry
that love is violence.

— José Olivarez, from “Getting Ready to Say I Love You to My Dad, It Rains,” Citizen Illegal