Make an index, family tree, chart, or diagram of your interests. All of them, everything: visual, physical, spiritual, sexual. Leisure time, hobbies, foods, buildings, airports, everything. Every book, movie, website, etc. The totality of this self-exposure may be daunting, scary. But your voice is here. This will become a resource and record to return to and add to for the rest of your life.
Words may fail, but you can hear the blue: it speaks a missing language.
∆ Carol Mavor, from “Words May Fail”, Blue Mythologies: Reflections on a Colour