When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What do you love about me that you wish I could love about myself?

How do we bring out the best in each other? How do we bring out the worst?

"Choosing your partner is like choosing a painting. You don't choose the best-looking one, you choose the one that makes you feel something"

Sex as sustained ritual
Not a performance