4 levels of happiness
We all strive for happiness. According to Aristotle it is the ONLY thing we want for it’s own sake. Everything else we do is in order to be happy - in one way or another.
But happiness is not a simple concept. Aristotle distinguished between four different levels of happiness.
Happiness level 1: Laetus. Happiness from material objects
Happiness at the first level is simply about sensual gratification based on things / something external. This kind of happiness can be intense but is short-lived.
People focusing exclusively on level 1 risk to hit a crisis where life seems shallow and without meaning. In other words there is a limit to the pleasure you get from a new car, a holiday, a nice meal etc. if this is the ONLY source of happiness. As long as you don’t forget the other levels there is absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying the pleasures of level 1 that life can provide!
Happiness level 2: Felix. Ego gratification. Happiness from comparison: being better, more admired than others etc.
You feel this type of happiness when you for example win in sports or get a promotion.
Everyone likes admiration and winning to some extent but people varies a lot regarding how strong their competitive nature is. For some it’s everything, for others it’s just a very minor and very short lived pleasure.
Happiness from continuous comparison with other people is unstable because no one (or very few people) can win in all domains of life all the time. In case of failure, focusing too much on this level can lead to frustrations and a sense of worthlessness.
Excessive focus on comparison and self-promotion also risk to alienate the people around you and can lead to self-absorption, jealousy, cynicism, and the oppression of others.
Happiness level 3: Beatitudo. The happiness from doing good for others and making the world a better place.
This level of happiness is based on the human desire for connection, goodness, meaning, compassion, friendship and unity. Some has summed it up as simply: “Love!”
As this level we move away from ourselves to focus on the well-being of others. In essence our own happiness depends also on the happiness of others.
Level 3 happiness is more lasting and, for most people, provides a deeper feeling of meaning than level 1 and 2.
The limits of level 3 happiness can be said to be human imperfections. Nobody is perfect and human relationships involve disappointment, jealousy, and the risk to be hurt. That’s part of life.
Happiness level 4: Sublime Beatitudo. Ultimate, perfect happiness
Level 4 happiness is the most difficult to describe. It involves a search for fullness and perfection. It has to do with finding the right balance between the other levels... and then some.
Psychologists have labelled this desire for ultimate happiness a call for connection to the larger universe or a sort of transcendence.
Some fulfill this desire through spirituality or religion, others through philosophy, art, or scientific endeavours to find answers to some of the big questions of life, human existence and the universe. There’s no definitive or universal answer. You have to find your own calling!
By Ven. Dr. K Sri Dhammananda
Remember there are four kinds of happiness:
Happiness of Possession – In owning your own property, house, land, business, bank account.
Happiness of Enjoyment – Using what you have earned (which) you can enjoy good food, nice house, (comfortable clothing) without abusing, bluffing and cheating others.
Happiness of Debtlessness – Try best not to borrow from others. By spending within your own means, you gain self respect.
Happiness of Blamelessness – Try to lead life without bringing harm to anyone.
(You must constantly cultivate) these four kinds of happiness. (Never) be lazy, do some (productive) work, do not neglect what you have earned. Maintain and protect what you have earned.
Later on, you can then decide upon adopting a Buddhist way of life, right up to becoming an Arahant. (But first, you have to) know how to adjust your way of life and how to associate with others. Who are (these others)?
Associate with good people, not harmful, wicked people. Support your father and mother and look after your wife and children. Don’t neglect relatives, help them (when needful). Develop your mind to the extent that you are not shaken by the eight winds of change – praise and blame, fame and shame, gain and loss, pleasure and pain and treat all the same. (If you do this well) at this stage nothing will affect you.
All meetings end in partings,
That which rises must fall,
That which is collected will be dispersed,
Birth ends with death
Edited by Ang Choo Hong