“Not everyone we connect with is going to be able to reciprocate our love. Sometimes we are ready and another person is not. Sometimes we choose someone and they cannot choose us back… And that is okay. You have to understand that that is okay…Someone’s inability to choose me is not a reflection of me, or my value, or my worth. However, it is also not something I need to grip at and dissect and turn into pain.
Sometimes life weathers people in different ways. We are all on this earth just trying to figure ourselves out. Just trying to mend the breaks in our souls, just trying to deal with what is heavy within us.
Sometimes we are ready and another person is not. Sometimes we try and another person does not. Sometimes we put ourselves into another human being and they cannot contain all that we are…Sometimes we choose to make things work and another person decides that they cannot choose that same reality and that is okay.
Because at the end of the day if someone does not meet you where you are, you cannot keep asking them to do so. If someone cannot reciprocate your love, if someone cannot give you what you truly deserve, you have to understand that aching them to do so before they are ready, is a form of self-destruction…You have to let this person grow on their own terms because you cannot love someone into their potential. You cannot love someone into being ready — they have to do that on their own.”
— Bianca Sparacino
do you ever just see something that completely breaks your heart & makes you feel instant feelings of inadequacy & sadness especially when the universe's timing doesn't work in your favor?
"Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
do you wonder if the person who you're always thinking of is thinking of you too? wondering if they care. wondering if they miss you & the impact that you had on their life. wondering if talking to you made their life better? wondering if they truly cared for you all along like they said they did? wondering if they recognize how much they hurt you? i hate how much I find myself thinking about you random times during the day or when i see an article or a funny tweet that i'd love to send you because i know you'll enjoy it. i think about your happiness and am still sad that i can't add to that happiness & frankly, i'm sad that you can't be that for me either. maybe you just came into my life to help me grow and heal and remind myself that I can trust people again. maybe in my head i keep thinking of you with the hopes that one day you'll think of me the same way and reach out. or maybe we are just supposed to move on with both of our lives as if nothing happened