people leave traces of their story in every thing they do and everything they say. probably if you look closely enough, over enough time. but still so much is unknowable not only to the observer but also to themselves -- where do the things they dont remember and we cant see go. does anyone know it?

one of my friends once told me she had a (bad) trip where her entire memory was unlocked, and she realized that a lot of it was still there -- far more of it than she ever knew was still recorded/ she could have access to. it was like she kept tripping into it/ falling into different memories.