a newly skeptical account of radical softness and an attempt to recuperate it rigorously
(love-based journeys for flourishing; harmonic interiority for healing)
based on https://www.are.na/block/1480421
"When being kind is restricted to those of one’s kind, kind is not kind."
"They had cried night and day for sorrow at having no child to help them in their lonely old age, and now that their prayer was answered they were so lost with joy that they did not know where to put their hands or their feet."