The optimist proclaims that we live in the best of all possible worlds; and the pessimist fears this is true.
the most important relationship we must strive to build is with ourselves, everything begins and ends with us, no matter how cliched, hopelessly paradoxical or selfish that may sound! It's called being self-assured
"Fears of particular dangers, if only virtual ones, haunt the workday like a mood that cannot be escaped.This fear, however, is transformed into an operational requirement, a special tool of the trade. Insecurity about one’s place during periodic innovation, fear of losing recently gained privileges, and anxiety over being ‘left behind’ translate into flexibility, adaptability, and a
readiness to reconfigure oneself." Here we see how capitalism’s classic affects of disaffection (and thus of potential social conflict and political antagonism) are neatly reabsorbed by the wage system and reconfigured into professional ideals