We all are born with an idea of our partner in love and how it should be. Over time I feel, it actually is about finding that person, who makes us break free from all the ideal imagery we create in our head. And if you have found someone for whom you are willing to let go off all your ideas of love. You have undomesticated your heart and let it be wild, like the one in front of you.
To be loved is to be changed. The people we love shape our language, our thoughts and our choices. We can’t learn security in a vacuum. Independence won’t save us from having to depend on others.